I would have told her to hold on,

A favour­ite inter­viewee was clearly Alice Walker, “one of the fun­da­mental vis­ion­ar­ies of our time”, whose writ­ing “remains lan­guid and effort­lessly grace­ful, and has not lost its enorm­ous power to prod at the sorest, most crit­ical anxi­et­ies of the human con­di­tion”.

It was Walker whose kind­ness dis­armed Evans when, inter­rupt­ing a transat­lantic tele­phone inter­view in 1998, she asked her, “What’s wrong? You don’t sound happy”. Evans had just lost her identical twin to sui­cide, the most seis­mic event of her life. She wondered what she could have said to her, given the chance, to per­suade her not to do it.

“I would have told her to hold on,” Walker replied, “until it passes. Everything passes.”

She has, she says, remembered the advice, ever since.

Sue Gaisford, FT book review

I Want to Talk to You: And Other Con­ver­sa­tions by Diana Evans 

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