How to Change Any­one’s Mind

When try­ing to change minds, or­ga­ni­za­tions or even the world, we of­ten de­fault to a par­tic­u­lar ap­proach: push­ing. Boss not lis­ten­ing to that new idea? Send them an­other Power­Point deck. Client isn’t buy­ing the pitch? Re­mind them of all the ben­e­fits.

The in­tu­ition be­hind this ap­proach comes from physics. If you’re try­ing to move a chair, for ex­am­ple, push­ing usu­ally works. Push it in one di­rec­tion and it tends to go that way. Un­for­tu­nately, peo­ple and or­ga­ni­za­tions aren’t like chairs; they of­ten push back. In­stead, it helps to look to chemistry, where there’s a proven way to make change hap­pen fast: Add a cat­a­lyst.

Cat­a­lysts con­vert air into fer­til­izer and pe­troleum into bike hel­mets. But most in­trigu­ing is the way they gen­er­ate change. In­stead of adding heat or pres­sure, they pro­vide an al­ter­nate route, re­duc­ing the amount of en­ergy re­quired for re­ac­tions to oc­cur. Rather than push­ing, they re­move bar­ri­ers.

In­stead of giv­ing peo­ple more facts, fig­ures or rea­sons, smart change agents find the hid­den ob­sta­cles pre­vent­ing change and mit­i­gate them. In­stead of ask­ing what might con­vince some­one to change, cat­a­lysts start with more ba­sic ques­tions: Why haven’t they changed al­ready? What’s stop­ping them?

There are five re­cur­ring bar­ri­ers to change.

Re­duce re­ac­tance.

Peo­ple like to feel like they’re in con­trol—in the driv­ers’ seat. When we try to get them to do some­thing, they feel dis­em­pow­ered. Rather than feel­ing like they made the choice, they feel like we made it for them. So they say no or do some­thing else, even when they might have orig­i­nally been happy to go along. Psy­chol­ogists call this neg­a­tive re­sponse “re­ac­tance.”

Allow for agency. Guide the path but make sure peo­ple feel like they’re still in con­trol. Smart con­sul­tants do this when pre­sent­ing work to clients. If you share just one so­lu­tion, the clients spend the meet­ing try­ing to poke holes in it. To shift this mind-set, good pre­sen­ters of­ten share mul­ti­ple op­tions. That way, rather than fo­cus­ing on flaws, the clients fo­cus on which op­tion they pre­fer, which makes them much more likely to sup­port mov­ing for­ward.

An­other way to re­duce re­actance is to high­light a gap be­tween some­one’s thoughts and ac­tions, or be­tween what they would rec­ommend to oth­ers and what they them­selves are do­ing.High­light­ing such dis­so­nance en­cour­ages peo­ple to try to re­solve it.

Ease en­dow­ment.

Re­search on every­thing from in­vest­ment choices to po­lit­i­cal in­cum­bency demon­strates that peo­ple are over-at­tached to the sta­tus quo, what so­cial sci­en­tists call the “en­dow-ment ef­fect.” We tend to stick with things we know and have used for a long time. Part of the chal­lenge is that the sta­tus quo usu­ally isn’t that bad, or else peo­ple would have made a change.

Change agents com­bat this phe­nomenon by bring­ing the costs of in­ac­tion to the sur­face, help­ing peo­ple to re­al­ize that stick­ing with the sta­tus quo isn’t as cost-free as it seems.

Shrink dis­tance.

When new in­for­ma­tion comes in, peo­ple tend to com­pare it to their ex­ist­ing views to see if it is a close enough match to con­sider. Psy­cho­log­i­cal ex­per­i-ments have found a “zone of ac­cep­tance,” an area close enough to peo­ple’s ex­ist­ing be­liefs that they’ll con­sider new in­for­ma­tion. In­com­ing con­tent that is too far away from their cur­rent per­spec­tive falls into a re­gion of re­jec­tion and gets dis­counted. Prod­uct de­sign­ers talk about such grad­ual shifts in be­hav­ior as step­ping stones—a way to make a big shift feel less daunt­ing. Uber’s ini­tial model didn’t de­pend on per­suad­ing peo­ple to take a ride in a ran­dom stranger’s car. That’s ex­actly what Mom told you not to do. The com­pany started in­stead by mak­ing high-end black-car ser­vice more ac­ces­si­able.

Al­le­vi­ate un­cer­tainty.

Change usu­ally in­volves some level of risk. Will a new prod­uct be bet­ter than the old one? Will a new ini­tia­tive re­ally save money? Re­search pub­lished by thE Uni­ver­sity of Chicago re­searchers found that there is an “un­cer­tainty tax.” Peo­ple in the study were will­ing to pay $26 for a $50 gift cer­tifi­cate, but when they were asked how much they’d pay for a lot­tery ticket that would win them ei­ther that same $50 gift card or a $100 one, they were only will­ing to pay $16, a 40% drop. The un­cer­tainty made them un­der­value some­thing that was ob­jec­tively worth more. To ease un­cer­tainty, lower the bar­rier to trial. Don’t just tell peo­ple that some­thing is bet­ter; al­low them to ex­pe­ri­ence it them­selves. Peo­ple didn’t un­der­stand cloud stor­age and wor­ried that it would be dif­fi­cult to use or that they would lose their work. So Drop­box started giv­ing away a ver­sion of their ser­vice for free. The ap­pe­tizer helped peo­ple to re­solve their un­cer­tainty and en­cour­aged them to pay to up­grade to a bet­ter ver­sion. Un­cer­tainty can also be re­duced by mak­ing things re-versible. You can offer a trial pe­riod.” The trial didn’t re­duce the up­front costs, but it did re­move the un­cer­tainty.

Find cor­rob­o­rat­ing ev­i­dence.

For big changes, some­times hear­ing from one per­son isn’t enough. You can fol­low up mul­ti­ple times with new in­for­ma­tion, but the lis­tener is still faced with a trans­la­tion prob­lem. Sure, you think some­thing is the right course of ac­tion, but you’re just one per­son. How do they know what you’re say­ing is right? There’s strength in num­bers. That’s why sub­stance-abuse coun­selors use group in­ter­ven­tions to drive ac­tion. Cor­po­rate boards wait to adopt new prac­tices un­til they’ve been adopted by sev­eral peer in­sti­tu-tions. Doc­tors wait to adopt new drugs un­til mul­ti­ple col­leagues start us­ing them. that the in­ci­dence of peo­ple As the adage goes, “if one per­son says you have a tail, you laugh and think they’re crazy. But if three peo­ple say it, you turn around to look.”

Whether you’re try­ing to con­vince a client, change an or­ga­ni­za­tion, dis­rupt a whole in­dus­try or just get some­one to adopt a puppy, the same rules ap­ply. It’s not about push­ing harder or ex­ert­ing more en­ergy. It’s about re­duc­ing bar­ri­ers to ac­tion. Once you un­der­stand that, you can change any­thing.

Dr. Jonah Berger

Marketing pro­fes­sor at the Whar­ton School

The Cat­a­lyst: How to Change Any­one’s Mind

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